{"id":5542119,"date":"2021-03-08T12:10:08","date_gmt":"2021-03-08T09:10:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/rundamental.com\/?p=5542119"},"modified":"2021-12-20T11:16:37","modified_gmt":"2021-12-20T08:16:37","slug":"kadinlar-madinlar-gunu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.rundamental.com\/en\/kadinlar-madinlar-gunu\/","title":{"rendered":"Kad\u0131nlar Mad\u0131nlar G\u00fcn\u00fc"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/rundamental.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Image-from-iOS-1-1000x333.jpg\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Bug\u00fcn 8 Mart D\u00fcnya Kad\u0131nlar G\u00fcn\u00fc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>2021\u2019in 67. g\u00fcn\u00fcnde toplamda 68 kad\u0131n erkekler taraf\u0131ndan katledildi.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Bu her g\u00fcne bir kad\u0131n katli art\u0131 \u201c67 g\u00fcne s\u0131\u011famam\u0131\u015f bir kad\u0131n katli\u201d demek.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>68 ilk bak\u0131\u015fta sadece bir say\u0131 gibi g\u00f6r\u00fclse de asl\u0131nda 68 ayr\u0131 d\u00fcnya demek. Hepsinin hayat\u0131na girdi\u011finizde farkl\u0131 bir hikaye, farkl\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 var. Hepsinin g\u00f6z\u00fcnden bu d\u00fcnya bamba\u015fka. Kiminin annesi babas\u0131, kiminin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131, hepsinin arkada\u015flar\u0131 var. An\u0131t Saya\u00e7\u2019ta hepsinin ayr\u0131 ayr\u0131 hikayesi var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>D\u0131\u015far\u0131dan bak\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bug\u00fcn kad\u0131nlar i\u00e7in bir kutlama g\u00fcn\u00fc gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de asl\u0131nda bu bir anma g\u00fcn\u00fc. B\u00f6yle bir \u00fclkede, her g\u00fcne 1 kad\u0131n\u0131n farkl\u0131 farkl\u0131 metotlarla \u00f6ld\u00fcr\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fc bir \u00fclkede yapaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z \u015fey kutlama de\u011fil anma, ba\u015fkald\u0131r\u0131 ve m\u00fccadele olabilir sadece.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/rundamental.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Image-from-iOS-3.jpg\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Aya maya gidiyoruz diyenlerin kendi topraklar\u0131ndaki e\u015fcinsellere \u201cyok\u201d dedi\u011fi bir \u00fclkede bizim m\u00fccadele i\u00e7in yapmam\u0131z gereken daha \u00e7ok \u015fey var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Fakat \u015funu da unutmamak gerekiyor, bu \u00fclkede g\u00fcndem \u00e7ok \u00e7abuk de\u011fi\u015fir. Mesela bundan 5-10 sene \u00f6nce medya ve miktidar \u201ckad\u0131n cinayeti\u201d yerine \u201cev i\u00e7i \u015fiddet\u201d ya da \u201cnamus cinayeti\u201d s\u00f6ylemini kullan\u0131yordu. Yo\u011fun bask\u0131lar sonucu bu s\u00f6ylemi de\u011fi\u015ftirmek zorunda kald\u0131lar. Hatta bundan birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn \u00f6nce televizyonlarda g\u00f6zlerimizi ya\u015fartan bir konu\u015fmaya \u015fahit olduk. \u201c\u0130stanbul S\u00f6zle\u015fmesi Ya\u015fat\u0131r\u201d denmeye ramak kala bir konu\u015fma ya\u015fand\u0131. O g\u00fcnlerden bu g\u00fcnlere gelindiyse elbet bu karanl\u0131k g\u00fcnlerden de m\u00fccadele ile \u00e7\u0131kabiliriz.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Mesela biz sporcu kad\u0131nlar 4-5 sene \u00f6nce sokakta \u00e7ok\u00e7a s\u00f6zl\u00fc tacize u\u011frar, yaln\u0131z ko\u015famazd\u0131k bile. Fakat \u015fu an biz kad\u0131nlar soka\u011fa al\u0131\u015ft\u0131k, sokaklar da bize al\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Hala ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z sorunlardan biri ise sosyal medya tacizi. Y\u0131l olmu\u015f 2021, hala baz\u0131 erkekler seksi bir cezaland\u0131rma arac\u0131 olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcyorlar, s\u00f6zl\u00fc tacizlerinde seni \u015f\u00f6yle bilmem ne yapar\u0131m tarz\u0131 bir dil kullan\u0131yorlar. Umar\u0131m zamanla ve bizim m\u00fccadelemizle bu da son bulur, ya da en az\u0131ndan daha az ilkel ve daha mant\u0131k s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131 dahilinde bir hal al\u0131r.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/rundamental.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Image-from-iOS-2-750x1000.jpg\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Asl\u0131nda biz ko\u015fucu kad\u0131nlar nispeten daha e\u015fitlik\u00e7i bir \u00e7evrede ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in \u015fansl\u0131y\u0131z. En az\u0131ndan baz\u0131 kavramlar\u0131 s\u0131f\u0131rdan anlatmak, tart\u0131\u015fmak zorunda de\u011filiz. Fakat yine de \u201cben feministim\u201d dedi\u011finde \u201cvalla bravo\u201d diyen ama asl\u0131nda i\u00e7ten i\u00e7e lezbiyen oldu\u011funu zanneden insanlar az\u0131nl\u0131kta de\u011fil maalesef. Hele ki de\u011fi\u015fen d\u00fcnya d\u00fczeniyle kavramlar \u00e7ok karma\u015f\u0131kla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in baz\u0131 durumlar kar\u015f\u0131dan kad\u0131n-erkek e\u015fitli\u011fi gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de asl\u0131nda de\u011fil. Mesela \u00e7evremde \u00e7o\u011fu evli kad\u0131n hem e\u015fiyle ayn\u0131 seviyede \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131p daha az maa\u015f al\u0131p, \u00fcst\u00fcne ev i\u015flerini \u00fcstlenip hem de \u00e7ocu\u011fu varsa ona bak\u0131p, \u00fcst\u00fcne bir kocas\u0131 oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in \u015f\u00fckrediyor. \u00c7evremde \u00e7o\u011fu bekar kad\u0131nsa psikolojik \u015fiddet g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ili\u015fkisine s\u0131rf yaln\u0131z kalmaktan korktu\u011fu i\u00e7in katlan\u0131yor. Hatta ve hatta inanamayacaks\u0131n\u0131z ama \u00e7evremde sevgilisini bakire olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in terkeden erkekler bile var.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Yani asl\u0131nda d\u00fczen de\u011fi\u015fmi\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de d\u00fcnya genel anlamda \u00e7ok karma\u015f\u0131kla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in sapla saman\u0131 ay\u0131rmam\u0131z daha da zorla\u015ft\u0131. Ayr\u0131ca d\u00fcnya genelinde fa\u015fizm reva\u00e7ta oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fczdeki g\u00fcnlerde daha da zorla\u015facak gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcyor.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/rundamental.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/03\/Image-from-iOS-4-750x1000.jpg\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Yine de umudumuzu kaybetmemeliyiz, \u015fimdiye kadar verilen m\u00fccadelelerle nas\u0131l belirli kazan\u0131mlar elde edildiyse bundan sonra da i\u00e7imizdeki m\u00fccadeleci ruhla \u00e7ok \u015feyi de\u011fi\u015ftirebilece\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyorum. Bazen \u00e7evrenizdeki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u00e7ocu\u011fa s\u00f6yledi\u011finiz ufak bir s\u00f6z bile onun hayat\u0131na dokunup erdemli bir insan olmas\u0131na sebep olabiliyor. T\u0131pk\u0131 bunun gibi dikti\u011finiz minik bir badem a\u011fac\u0131 bile seneler sonra b\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcp \u00e7i\u00e7ekleriyle bahar\u0131 m\u00fcjdeleyip ar\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7evresine toplayabiliyor.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Bug\u00fcn 8 Mart D\u00fcnya Kad\u0131nlar G\u00fcn\u00fc. 2021\u2019in 67. g\u00fcn\u00fcnde toplamda 68 kad\u0131n erkekler taraf\u0131ndan katledildi. Bu her g\u00fcne bir kad\u0131n katli art\u0131 \u201c67 g\u00fcne s\u0131\u011famam\u0131\u015f bir kad\u0131n katli\u201d demek. 68 ilk bak\u0131\u015fta sadece bir say\u0131 gibi g\u00f6r\u00fclse de asl\u0131nda 68 ayr\u0131 d\u00fcnya demek. Hepsinin hayat\u0131na girdi\u011finizde farkl\u0131 bir hikaye, farkl\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 var. 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